We skipped going to church this week. It's had it's ups & downs but that's a story for another time. instead we packed up the boys and ventured for a fishing trip. Yeah, we're crazy like that. 4 little boys+water+hooks can be a scary combo.
And while there are probably a million & 1 fantastic fishing spots down here in the "redneck riviera" as my father inlaw calls it, we just don't know them yet. So we set out to a place that we knew would be great at our first attempt. The park that sits across from {matt}s grandparents old house.
yes, it was really that foggy. |
{gran} & {pop} have both gone to be with Jesus and we haven't been by the house since new owners have moved in. It was a little strange. But this trip was different. We had 4 little boys that are so full of life & adventure that the memories here were sweet & full of excitement to have our own kids there. Digging in the sand. Running down the pier. Squealing as they ran around the playground.
While the day was full of fog & no fish. We all were worn out by lunch. I've come to learn that the success of these trips isn't about whether or not any fish are caught, but that we are all enjoying our time together...even if it's spent untangling fishing lines. It's about giving my boys a chance to do little boy things.
{ben} loved the worms. i definitely heard him say to a worm, 'come here, ya slimy jerk!' what?! haha! |
Give boys room to explore & the possibilities become endless.
So what if their pants are soaked because they didn't wipe the slide off first...they were enjoying the moment.
Or their clothes & shoes get muddy...they were running & playing.
Maybe they're hot & sweaty & smell like outside...they're doing what boys were made to do!
{matt} said he used to play in this same spot for hours. i. love. this! |
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I love this reminder that little boys need to be little boys; unrestrained and allowed to find mess. I'll have to keep that in mind when my little one is up to that stage and let go of the mumma instinct that wants to keep him clean and safe.
ReplyDelete@Bettina all us mommas need reminders to let boys do their thing...cause it's totally against anything we desire/need them to do.
ReplyDeleteThe shots with the fog are awesome!
ReplyDelete@Katie @ minivan diva thanks katie! definitely worked out in my favor :)
ReplyDeleteYou have a wonderful family, Kristi! Your little boys are adorable! It’s too bad that you weren’t able to catch any fish, but I am glad that everyone still enjoyed your “fishing” trip. Hopefully next time you would catch some then you could cook those up for lunch or dinner.
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